Many of us have been through some type of a break-up in our lives. Some have been permanent break-ups, others have reconciled. In between break ups or reconciliation, we kind of stayed to ourselves and didn’t date too quickly or even considered it.
However, we are human and have needs, desires and look for a way to fulfill these needs. As hard as this is to admit, most of us have done things we wish we could erase from our memories. During these times, a person can be vulnerable and lust can take over completely.
Logic and common sense are put aside for a few hours. Once it’s over and we come to our senses, we begin to regret our actions. What some of us do is quickly run out of wherever we wake up and head for home. We shower until our skin is raw and then question ourselves as t why we did something so dumb. If we could only delete that memory and our actions as we do with programs saved on our computer. Since we can’t do this, what we do is hide. We quickly change our phone number just in case we were dumb enough to give it to them and if we see them in public we go the opposite way. Another thing we worry about is diseases, something we should have thought of from the beginning. We are adults and we all know casual sex comes with severe consequences, especially if alcohol was involved and contraceptives weren’t.
So, since this is a dangerous step to take to satisfy our needs, what can we do? Well for women, there are plenty of little toys to play with. These toys can satisfy their immediate needs until the right person comes along. Of course, to many women, this is truly embarrassing. What happens if they order it and the package pops open? The world will see what she has purchased and the next time they see the mail courier they might get an odd look from them. But ladies, do not worry, this does not happen. You can purchase the items you want and no one will be the wiser unless you tell someone else. A note, there are toys for men too and there is a variety of them. However, men are even more uncomfortable with these than women.
Now many of us can’t stand the idea of satisfying our need with a piece of rubber shaped in odd ways. Heck, for some of us, it’s downright creepy and weird. We won’t even hold it in our hands. So how do we satisfy our needs? There is the infamous booty call. This is a certain someone you have on the side just for those times you need to satisfy your sexual needs. Sure it sounds a little odd but it’s no surprise it’s very popular. How do you go about having someone there for a booty call?
- A special friend that you have no feelings for except friendship but on the other hand is great for a roll in the hay. Of course, you have to make sure there are no attachments and both can deal with this type of relationship.
- An ex-spouse or partner is usually is good for a booty call. This works great, especially since you both know each other and can remain friends.
Now when you do this, remember, it’s just to satisfy the sexual needs, nothing more. You should not be attached to this person in anyway. If one or the other becomes attached and there is no hope for a relationship, it should be stopped immediately. Now for those that are exes don’t be surprised, sometimes this sparks old feelings and it can become into a relationship again. If this is what you want go for it.
One important thing, if your booty call designator is in a relationship you should respect it and move on. No one should ever interfere in a relationship. Also, don’t forget to use condoms. It could be you haven’t been with anyone in a while but you really don’t know about them.