What do many of us do when we are in a relationship for longer than a few months? We start letting go, we become comfortable in our relationship. At first, the passion was incredible. There was constant communication between the two, texts, emails and phone calls.
All these messages included a hint or were clear as to what to expect next time you saw each other. As soon as you could, you would run home to each other. As you walked through the door, nothing matter, it was all about each other.
You would actually have a little fun first, please each other. Afterwards you would take care of your daily chores and with a smile. As time went by, you did this less and less. The reason this happened is because we became comfortable in our relationship. We love each other and that should be enough. In some relationships, the reason things changed is because now they have children and it’s very hard to be passionate with them around. But to be honest, no matter what the reason is, passion is a very important part of a relationship along with love, caring and attention. It’s time to bring passion back into our lives; wake up what has been asleep for a while.
First thing the couple has to do is change their routine; they must find time for each other. Women have to remember what they did to please their partner. First of all, she should start wearing cute and sexy lingerie. The moment a man sees her in the lingerie, he knows it’s going to be fun. Most men will get excited and even make a comment such as tonight is the night I am going to have some fun. The anticipation will drive him crazy. Get ready though, they are expecting a lot that evening, not just cuddling and kissing.
Now men are easy to please and easy to wake up their desires, women on the other hand can be a bit more complicated so he may have to work a little hard to wake her up. He has to think back to when he first met her. What impressed her about him, what made her feel excited, what little touches or kisses woke up the passion in her? Well, he can begin from the moment they wake up. Let her know he loves her, little kiss, send flowers, invite her to dinner or help her cook at home. When they are near each other, brush up against her, talk softly into her ear. These little things will excite her and she will feel passionate, ready to love and be loved.
Consider trying something new and be willing to please each other. You can’t expect to be catered to and not give anything in return, that will end the passion. To build the passion back up, you both have to pay attention to each other, be prepared to give each your all. Now, they say music calms the beast in us but some music will awaken the passion in us, it will make us lust for each other even more. Consider putting on soft music that is sexy and can both of you wild. Now please, you need music to awaken the passion not put it to sleep or scare it away. Unless you are into it, heavy metal, classic music or elevator music, just doesn’t do well when it comes to waking up passion.
This can save a relationship and put it back on track. It’s true, love is important but without passion it will die. Each has to feel wanted, desired, needed and feel sexy. Sometimes we forget to complement each other and we begin to feel the other does not find us attractive anymore. This can make the other person look around for the attention and passion they don’t have at home. Be adventurous in the bedroom, make it exciting but be safe. Some people will do things that are quite scary. Be passionate, be sexy but be smart. Give into each other completely and learn to please each other. We can’t do this every day so always set aside a few nights just for each other. So tonight ladies, wear something sexy and wear his favorite cologne. Men, shower up, wear sexy underwear, put on some cologne and go for it. Tomorrow you will both wake up with a smile on your face.