You have decided to go out and find Mr. Right or you are trying to make your new relationship last.  First thing you have to do is avoid making the same mistakes you have made in the past.

It’s not easy because we are creatures of habit and keep doing the same thing over and over again.

First thing you have to do is let those memories go, don’t let them consume you.  Have a more optimistic attitude towards the relationship and be more confident.  If the relationship is meant to be, it will be.

Changing Him

Whatever you may believe or think you can’t change a person.  At first, just for the heck of it, they may go along with it but as time goes by, when they notice you won’t stop, they get tired and leave.  Let them be who they are and if it doesn’t work, just move on.

Rushing into Sex

It’s true, he won’t pass a night of sex and if that’s what you want, so be it that will happen.  However, as hard as this may be to believe, they like a woman who respects herself and holds off for a while.  Not forever but at least for a few dates.  Take that time to get to know each other and then decide if it’s a good idea to take the relationship further.

Femininity and Manners

A woman who is very feminine and has great manners attracts a man quickly.  Even though we are in the 21st century, they are not too into women who are rough around the edges or pushy.  These types of women they don’t take them seriously.  She can be the hottest woman around but can’t even say thank you or be feminine, you can bet he won’t be around for a second date.

Prince Charming

Stop looking for perfection, Prince Charming isn’t real.  Look for good qualities in a person, such as honesty, kindness, caring, passion, etc.  When you get stuck on good looks, what you end up with is an empty shell stuck who only cares about themselves.  Take a step back and write down what you really want in a relationship, be ready to make certain sacrifices.

Abandoning Your Circle

Biggest mistake is making yourself completely available and forgetting your circle of friends.  There you are, sitting next to the phone, rushing to get home, waiting for him to call you so you can run to his side.  Doing this is wrong, the day you can’t do this, they will get mad.  Not only that, should your relationship end, where do you go since you basically shut out your friends.  Keep your friends and make time for everyone.

Past Relationships

Don’t look for the one that got away or your lost soul mate.  This is what you do; try to find a man comparable to someone in your past that got away.  Think about this, if they are gone, it’s for a reason, most likely it just wasn’t going to work.  Don’t put pressure on yourself or the new guy and definitely don’t compare them; it will only be painful to you and hurtful to him.  This is a good way to end a relationship before it even begins.