It’s true that most men are visual. He is aroused by what he sees. It can be the woman's legs, bossoms, waistline, tush, etc. In the beginning that keeps the man going but after a while men, in a relationship, some men get bored and tired. It’s hard to hear this but it's true.
They love you but they enjoy excitement, new things, remember they are visual. As Eddie Murphy said in his stand up show, “At first, the man is hungry. You give him that cracker and he loves it, it’s the best one he has ever had.
Unfortunately after time goes by, they are no longer interested, the cracker is the same, stale and dry”. Just as women, men need something to keep them interested. You may still look the same but so is everything else. The couple must always try to find a way to keep that flame going. Keep it flickering strong and make it last. Love is part of it but then there is the bedroom. At times, everyone is so busy that when it comes to the bedroom, there is no action.
Just good night, a simple kiss and off to sleep. It gets to the point that it is such a routine, they have no desire to be intimate. Well just like women, you can get them aroused by stimulating him from head to toe with light caresses, kisses and even a little visual show to get him going.
EYES
Since they are visual, this is perfect. Without letting him know anything, start undressing in front of him, if possible put on a little music. You will catch him off guard and this will definitely get his engine going. As you are undressing, do it slowly and definitely make it sexy. When he is aroused by what he sees, his pupils dilate. When you make occasionally eye contact, he will get even more aroused. What you may have not known is that looking at his dilated eyes will also arouse you. So the more intense the look, the hotter it gets between the two of you.
STOMACH
Men get butterfly in their stomach when they are around a woman he is interested in. Once he begins to be get turned on, the veins in his gut constrict and his blood heads straight to the penis and surrounding muscles. This causes him to get that fluttery sensation in his stomach. To use this to your advantage, just trace a line with your tongue from the tip of his penis to his abs. This will enhance that feeling and make him tingle. It will drive him crazy.
THIGHS
Since he is aroused, the extra blood flow goes to his thighs. To make it a little more intense, just before sex, plant a few kisses in his inner thighs or caress him with the ends of your hair. This will make his thighs tighten and each time he thrusts, he will tighten even more. He will climax with each thrust and after his orgasm he will stay a bit tight. So give him a soothing massage on his thighs to relax those muscles, he will appreciate it.
EARS
When he’s aroused, his ears become hypersensitive to the touch as blood rushes to this area. Notice as you whisper in his ears, not only is he aroused by the words you speak into his ears but your warm breath. Don’t forget to nibble lightly on the ridges of his ear before sex to fire him up.
BUTT
His anus and butt are full of nerves that increase in sensitivity as he is aroused and climaxes. If he is comfortable with this, caress his buttocks in circular motion. He will get more and more aroused. Make the circles smaller and smaller, getting closer to the anus. If he still shows that he is comfortable play with his anus. He has the highest concentration of nerves in this area. As he nears climax, touch him more roughly, do playful swats on his butt. If you grab it and pull him deeper into you it will make him climax more and his orgasm will be more intense.
BRAIN
During sex his brain releases chemicals that affect his desires. In the arousal stage, the brain releases dopamine into his system, that’s when he shows a very intense desire for you. If there is something you want to try, this is the time to make the request. He will most likely give into whatever you desire by this time, he is at the highest peak. Now after his orgasm, he does feel close to you but tends to zonk out which aggravates women. Just so that you know, it is not something they do on purpose; it truly is out of their control. Once his brain shuts down, a chemical called oxytocin is released into his system. It basically knocks him out. So, we all like to cuddle but remember, his body is exhausted and this chemical will basically make him sleep soundly and peacefully.
SPINE
The spine is full of nerves that connect directly to his penis. It’s good to get him to lie on his stomach and sit ever so lightly on his buttocks, in kind of a caressing way. Once you are in this position, caress him up and down his spine. The tingly sensation will make him aroused. If you want to make it even more interesting, give him a rush especially down below, massage him with your breasts. That will drive him wild.
FEET
Women love it when their feet are massaged. It feels so relaxing and so good. Well men enjoy them as much as we do. During foreplay, it is good to massage his feet. The part of his brain that regulates his feet sensation is right next to the region that controls his erections. If you want to get him more aroused, just do the cowgirl position. While in this position, lean back and grab his feet while he is climaxing. This will send serious sensations to his penis and while he is climaxing don’t be surprised to see his feet arch, shake and even curl his toes. If you see this, you know he was truly satisfied.