Relationships are a full time job. We spend a lot of time, trying to that person. Many of our experiences or memories are funny and scary. One of the things we all do is drive ourselves crazy and everyone else around us. We spend hours going over our dates, wondering if this person will call back.
Everything we talk about is about that person. It comes to a point that no one wants to be near us. We think and ask every question that comes to our minds. It’s not on purpose; it’s just that we want to know what steps to take next.
Once we take that step, then we have a new set of questions to bug everyone with. It’s so bad, we can make ourselves sick. If there was only a way to just see things for what they are, subtle hints, something to stop the guesswork and stop of us from alienating our friends. Well there is and these signs have always been there. With these, we can end the guesswork; avoid badgering our friends for insight and wasting time when we could be out there looking for that person or enjoying our relationship.
Mentally Rejecting
Have you noticed that after a few dates you start seeing flaws in the person you are dating? What do you do when this happens, you run. Take a step back and see it for what it is. Many women noticed that the moment they realized the person may be the real deal, they basically freaked out. After trying so hard to find that person, now they are pushing them away. It’s the realization that the dream has finally come true. Many realized it was their own insecurities that caused all the nitpicking. When they realized this, they ended up in great relationships.
Passion
The first time the couple had sex, it was incredible. It was pure lust and desire, the unknown. As time goes by, it becomes routine and a bit dull. Many believe, this means it’s the end of the relationship. Not so, it’s called lack of imagination. If this happens, the couple should talk about it. They can come to an agreement that it’s lacking and without blaming each other, they will end up have great sex again. Sit down, discuss what he/she likes or doesn’t like. It’s a couple, you have been intimate, and there is no reason why they should feel embarrassed. Sex is an adventure, try something new once in a while, what will you lose, nothing at all.
Real Love
We meet the right person and we fall madly in love with them. Why? Well, it could be due to many reasons, such as their big heart, sweetness, sense of humor, passion, hard worker, etc. When we felt this, we may have not known everything about the person. As time goes by, we get to know each other more and more. Little secrets about our past come out; maybe they were once married, have a child or didn’t finish school? Does this make a difference, is this why we fell in love in the first place? As long as it’s not something horrible, it shouldn’t change the way we feel.
Best Friend
When we are in a relationship, it’s a good thing to be friends with each other. Many relationships start out this way. However, it’s not a good idea to be best friends, BFF; there is a limit to this. When we see each other, of course, we want to know how the day went but not every single detail. Men can’t deal with this, it drive them crazy. By doing this, we lose our sense of mystery, excitement. This will make men lose their sexual desire and emasculate them. It’s good to talk, make it interesting, fun, different each time. Leave the play by play talks for your real best friends.