March 7, 2010
Ways to never get what you want in bed

When it comes to the topic of sex, we are use to hearing that men are the only ones really concerned out it. It’s just not true at all.

Even though it is well known that men think about sex at least 13 times a day, women think about sex too. As a matter of fact, women think about sex at least 5 times a day.

This may be surprising to many but yes, women are concerned about sex.  At least 25% of the women population wants to have sex daily.

Here’s an eye opener, women are also concerned as to why they aren’t having as much sex as they want.  Well there are many reasons for this. Just as women, men have turn offs and also have concerns about their performance. Women have to wake up and be more adventurous.  You have to stop hinting and just go for it. At times a woman will have to take control of the situation, men just don’t like rejection.

If you are sending out signals, make sure they are clear. If you want him to kiss you yet you play hard to get, he will just back off completely. Don’t play games with him and don’t confuse him.  Leave the games for the bedroom, where they will really count.

INITIATIVE

Don’t always wait for your guy to make the first move.  If you want to have sex, then just show him, make your move.  They want to be seduced and that turns them on even more.

COMPLAINTS

If you are not feeling satisfied, don’t whine or complaint about it.  That will push him away and if you are barely having sex, you may end up with no sex at all.

EGO

The one thing you want to avoid is always asking for complaining and whining about how you feel fat or unattractive.  He will eventually get tired of constantly making you feel better by telling you how attractive you are too him.  Think about it, if he didn’t think you were attractive or hot, do you think he would be after you constantly for sex?

VARIETY

Be open minded, men like variety and like to have sex just about anywhere.  Don’t confine it to just the bedroom, be a little adventurous when you can.

GIGGLES

You might be a bit ticklish and when he touches or kisses you in certain areas you start to giggle. This scares them because they think you are laughing at him and are not pleased by his performance.  This will bring the sex to an end.  Let him know before hand, by whispering in his ear, that you are ticklish so that he knows it’s nothing personal.