We all have memories of our childhood of all the great times we had as a family. There were picnics, family vacations, birthdays, camping, family gatherings, etc.
We can sit there and relive our good memories. All those memories do put a smile on our faces.
Luckily some of us still have a great relationship with our entire family but others don’t. There are many reasons for this; it could be distance, time, or even a simple disagreement. Whatever it may be, it’s never too late. We can still have a good relationship with our family. All we have to do is reach out to them. It may have been a while since you talked them, you might feel awkward but don’t worry, it will be worth it.
Childhood Disputes
Let’s admit it; we all have had some arguments with our siblings. For some of us, that was water under the bridge but for others, it’s not so easy. Maybe you were picked on one too many times; the sister came between you and a best friend, etc. What we have to remember is that this was part of our childhood. Leave it there, let’s make peace and move on.
Spouses
One reason that many families keep there distance is due to the spouses. Maybe your brother, sister, cousin, etc married someone that is unpleasant. Don’t let them keep you away. Staying close sends the message that you are part of the family and are going nowhere. Remember, you are there for your family.
Topics
We all have different opinions and it’s acceptable. However, when it comes to topics such as politics or religion, no one’s opinion is accepted, no one is right. It’s as though World War III has begun. Avoid these arguments like the plague, change the topic, leave the room, do whatever you can, but don’t get involved and ruin your relationship.
Family Gatherings
There are always weddings, birthdays, christenings, anniversaries, family reunions, etc. We are so busy we begin to decline invitations to them, next thing you know we don’t receive any. Make some time, try to go to as many as you can. No one expects you to be at all of them but at least some. This way you are always in the loop.
Say Hello
We live in a world of technology; there is no excuse why we can’t send a simple note saying hello. Take a couple of minutes and send a text, email, e-card, etc and say hi. A simple note, asking them how they are and you are thinking of them will keep the lines of communication open.
Barbecue
Take advantage of the summer, it’s a good time to keep family close. Everyone loves a barbecue. Plan one for the family, get everyone involved, have fun stuff for all the kids. This will bring all of you together and create even memorable times for us and our children.