At the beginning of a relationship, the chemistry is pure fireworks. You just can’t get enough of each other, can’t wait to see each other again. It gets to a point that you watch the time, waiting in anticipation to leave, so that you can rush home to your partner.
This goes on for a year or so, but as the relationship progresses, things start to change. We start to get into a routine. We come home to clean and cook. After you are done with your daily chores, you then sit down to watch television, sit in front of the computer or read a book until it’s time for bed.
He on the other hand will hint at doing something extra special, some of the hints are not subtle. He gives you a little kiss on the neck, his arms around your waist, a little caress and whispers in your ear. His hints are very obvious, their is no denying what he is looking for and wants at that time.
Not us, many times we just don’t want to deal with it. We are just too tired and just push them away. It doesn’t mean you don’t love him, you are just tired, preoccupied with other things. This will eventually drive a wedge between the two of you.
He starts distancing himself and on those days you do want a little attention, he is just not interested. Some men can just deal with this and eventually say something to you; others will try to satisfy their needs by going out on you. Don’t let this happen to your relationship.
If you love this man then show him how much. Surprise him once in a while; you’ll notice a change in him. See, if you surprise him with little things he likes, then if he has to wait a little while, he will because he knows he will have a hell of time.
GET FRISKY
First thing you do when you get home is get freshened up. You take a quick shower, remove the make-up and wear comfortable clothes. Instead of this, as you walk through the door grab him. Start taking his clothes off, take him to the room and show him how much you do love him. This will excite him and quickly. He will be in heaven, this type of surprises are just what he likes.
WAKE UP CALL
Men have a special fantasy that involves a woman waking them up by giving them a blowjob. There is no better alarm clock then that. They will wake up thinking they are dreaming and will have a special smile on their face all day. You will put a spring into their day. This fantasy will make them more loving with you. Of course, this can’t be a onetime thing; you will have to do it again, not every day but once in a while. They will think of this constantly, tell you how much they loved it and hope it will be repeated soon.
QUICKIES
Don’t underestimate the joy of a quickie, men don’t. Those perk them right up. Another little unexpected surprise for him, this means you just want him so much, you can’t wait to get home. It’s true, they may be a little uncomfortable but do it once and even you will be hooked. It may involved a little maneuvering, of course, fully clothed is great. Try it, even you won’t be able to wait for the next time around.
LIGHTS
Women may like to turn off that light because they don’t feel pretty enough but he does. He wants to see your face as he pleasures you, that excites him even more. His desire for you will grow, just thinking of that night before will get him started. He wants to see the full view, enjoy it all. Remember, he does want to be with you, why hide? Give in to a little adventure, excitement, and pure ecstasy.
DOGGIE-STYLE
When we can’t see what is going on, it makes us feel uncomfortable. Many women already feel a little self-conscious; this position will make some of them neurotic. You wonder what is he thinking when he is back there? Is he going to feel disgusted when he takes a good look at your backside? You will be surprised to know he is not thinking any of those things; he is actually enjoying the backside view. From behind your look great, there are no dimples or bumps and it emphasizes the arch in the small of your back. He is just loving it, watching himself go in and out, plus the fact that when you are in this position, your vagina narrows, giving it a tighter fit and more friction. If you let all those self conscious thoughts go, you will enjoy it more. It is one of the most exciting positions. Since your butt is raised, your G-spot gets a lot of attention. You will love this position, relax and feel the excitement.
TALK DIRTY/FLIRTY
You know very well they enjoy a little dirty talk and flirting. When you are in a crowded place, at the movies, or just taking a stroll, whisper little dirty things to him in his ear. Tell him what you would like to do to him. Slightly caress his inner thigh when he is sitting next to you. Smile at him, a girlish smile, one that says “I am up to no good”. This will get him going, get him excited. He will want to get you home soon and have his way with you. A little dirty talk doesn’t hurt either just don’t get too nasty it might put them off. Tell him how much you are enjoying the sex, be a vixen, a little wild, be spontaneous. This will wake up the animal within and you will both be have the night of your lives.
NOTES/ANTICIPATION
While he is at work send him a text telling him what you would like to do to him. How you can’t wait to see him to ravish him. Tell him you will be waiting for him in a sexy nightgown or just wearing a bow. It will arouse him immediately. He will barely make it through the day and when it’s time to leave work, he will fly out of there. Be ready, as soon as he gets home, he will attack.
SEXY LINGERIE
Ok, he is there watching television, maybe there’s a game playing but you want to have a little fun. How to break him out of that trance, it’s easy, dress up, get sexy. Put on stilettos, stockings; maybe put on a very revealing nurses outfit, how about a wig. Just try different things, it feels like he is with a different woman each night. Every time you do this, do something different, don’t be afraid to be a little kinky, they will love you for it.
RIDE’M COW GIRL
Ok, he’s sleeping but you notice he is aroused. Pull that blanket away, slightly bring yourself down onto his penis and start riding him. Slowly at first, not to wake him too fast or the mood will be gone. While on top, kiss his chest slowly; hold his arms over his head. For a while he will think he is dreaming but when he opens those eyes, he will notice it’s real. The fact that you took the initiative to do this will drive him wild. Don’t let him touch you, take control, tell him how good it feels, moan, don’t hide your excitement. You will both climax and enjoy the ride.
SHOWER
You hear him in the shower, surprise him, get undressed and get in there. Join him in the shower, wash his back gently, his neck, his shoulders, his buttocks. Slowly caress his legs from the calves up to the inner thigh. Caress his inner thighs, ever so slightly but don’t touch his member or testicals. Turn him around, wash his chest, go down to his waist and circle around his member. This will arouse him. Don’t be surprised if he decides he wants to take you right in the shower, go with the flow, you will enjoy it.