August 25, 2010
What Men Find Romantic

Romance is a big part of a couple’s relationship.  Without romance, the relationship would eventually end because it becomes boring.  Every relationship needs some type of excitement.

That is why a couple should always try new things to do together and for each other.  Out of the two, women are a bit easier to figure out what they find romantic.

For instance, she comes home from work and mentions to her partner that a woman in the office received flowers.

They will go on and on about how beautiful they were and how romantic their partner must be. She will then make subtle hints of how great it would be if she ever received flowers.  She begins to think about it constantly and hopes that next time there is a special event, such as an anniversary, birthday or Valentine’s Day, they will receive flowers.  Of course, it would be even better if they sent them just because letting them know they are thinking about them.

If only men paid attention more often, they would be so much happier in their relationship.  A little love and romance keeps the passion burning and the woman will be more than happy to please her partner in every way possible. But do women know what men find attractive?  Some women believe men don’t about anything but sports, action movies and women in bikinis.  This is not completely true; they do have a romantic side to them.  What women have to realize is men may have a different idea of what they find romantic.  Women find a nice candlelight dinner, romantic movie, jewelry, getaways, flowers, etc as romantic when given to them.  These are the things men find romantic.

  • Letting him have a night out with the guys.  Most men won’t say they want to hang out with the guys in fear that it would cause a fight.   As a gift tell him that he should call his buddies and go out.  This shows him you trust him and makes him very happy.
  • Get him a pair of tickets to a game you know he would love to go to.  This will surprise him.  It may be that you don’t really enjoy sports, so tell him he doesn’t have to go with you, he can call a friend.
  • When it’s just you and him, before he gets home, dress up for him.  Maybe wear an outfit he finds extremely sexy or wear some type of sexy lingerie he bought for you.  Give him a chance to enjoy one of his many fantasies.
  • They loved to be touched and caressed, while doing this, let him know you find him sexy and strong.  Whisper it in his ear.  This gives him an ego boost besides they want to know you still find them irresistible.  It shows them you still want them.
  • When he’s taking a shower surprise him by joining him.  While you’re with him, wash his back, his buttocks, legs, inner thighs, get him excited.  Have the room ready so that when you both walk into your bedroom, it shows him that it’s going to be a special night for him.  This would be a good time to give in to something he has wanted to try.
  • Consider making him the meal he loves the most.  Usually everyone is so tired when they get home that they buy dinner on the way home or cook something quick.  One night, take it slow, cook a nice hearty home cooked meal and set the table for the two of you.  Make it a romantic night, men love the attention.

There are even more things men find romantic, it’s up to the women to find out what they are.  Also, to be honest, it’s easier for women to figure out these things than a man.  If she takes the time to do this, it will definitely make him pay her more attention and pick up on those subtle hints of what she finds romantic and wants from him.  Doing little odd things here and there will make the bond between a couple stronger and passion burning.