Just as men have turn offs, so do women. They can be just as picky or even worst. See men are visual, either they like what they see or they don’t. Sadly, there are times that doesn't even matter, pretty or not, sexy or not, all they want is sex so a a one night stand will do fine. Well women are different.
They notice everything, even the smallest of details. In less than 30 seconds they have looked at you from head to toe. Before you say your first words she has already formed an opinion of you and has even noticed any little annoying habits you may have.
Now you can change her way of thinking just by thinking before you speak. When you walk up to a woman or are out on a first date, be careful of what you say and how you act. One wrong move and she is gone, faster than a speeding bullet. Not only that, she will let all her friends know what type of man you are.
Now if it were only that simple. See it depends on you. Ok so you opened up your mouth and said a dumb thing. As soon as you notice this and she responds, excuse yourself and walk away.
Why, because the more you aggravate her the worst it's going to be for you. She will make it a point to humiliate you in front of your friends and hers. In those few minutes you made that mistake she already had it planned out in her mind. Not only is she turned off but dislikes you with a passion.
X-RAY VISION
Whatever you do, don’t undress her with your eyes. Don’t stare at her breasts, her legs or her ass. That will let her know you are just in it for the sex. Focus on her eyes, smile don’t drool. When you see her, compliment her, that is nice but please, please don’t use corny pick up lines. Those one-liners will sink the ship and it’s over.
HYGIENE
When you are meeting a woman for the first time, make sure you are dressed appropriately, especially if you are going out to a club or dinner. Don’t show up with clothes that look as though you pulled them out of the hamper or they were on the floor. Put on nice cologne, something sensual but not overpowering. Make sure your hair looks good; trim your beard, mustache, or goatee. Don’t show up all scruffy as though you rolled out of bed. Most important of all, your breath, always carry mints. Make sure when you say hello, you don’t straighten out those curls and burn the makeup off her face. That is a true turn off. Most of all, nose and ear hair, please, whatever you do, trim, trim and trim. Did I tell you to trim, please do. Women took the time to look their best, you should do the same. If they see that extra hair popping out of your ears, you may be sitting at that table or bar for a long time because she will not return.
BOASTING
When you are talking with her, please don’t try too hard to impress her with your portfolio. Okay, it’s good to know you are financially stable but please don’t enhance. You tell her that you have a big house, an expensive sports car, an amazing investment portfolio and a high paying job. Once you’re done talking about yourself, you might think you have impressed her and she wants to stay with you. Nope, instead she starts wondering why is he talking about all of this, what is he trying to compensate for, what is he lacking. As you can see, it’s over. See most of the times they don’t believe it, it's just hype, pure talk and nothing else. They feel it’s about getting in their pants and for many women there aren’t enough material things in the world to make them sell themselves for objects.
GRABBING/KISSING
As nice as she may look, keep your hands to yourself unless she hints she would like you to put your arm around her, hold her hand, etc. See, a quick turn off is trying to grab her every which way you can. At this point she forgets she is with a man and believes she is with an octopus and has to be constantly fighting off those tentacles. Now she wishes she had paid more attention to the Karate Kid movie, wax on, wax off. This way she could have fought you off even better. As for kisses, keep it simple, a peck on the cheek or on the hand. Please don’t give her a full blown kiss unless she is truly showing interest. It could be embarrassing.
EX-GIRLFRIENDS
We all have past relationships, some were good and some were bad. Whatever you do, don’t bring up past girlfriends. No one wants to hear about this on a first encounter. Don’t compare them to your exes or say what nasty women they were. All they wonder is what will he say about me when I am not around. Even worst if you say that most of them walked out on you, then they think there is something wrong here, time to move on.
DOMINATING
Don’t dominate the conversation; don’t make it all about you. Let her do most of the talking. You will impress her because she feels you are listening to her. Most of all be open minded and respect her opinion. Don’t try to impose your beliefs on her and most of all don’t be macho. A woman doesn’t like a man that feels he must do it all and she must obey him. If she notices this during your first encounter, it’s finished. They will take the first cab out of there and run for their life. Remember, they are in the United States and they believe in Freedom!